“你看到的就是你得到的”， 這樣的說法你一定聽過。我爺爺常常說:“如果你長
時間盯著一棵樹看,他看起來就會移動了。”我們看在眼里的就是我們想要看的東西。心理學(xué)家告訴我們,比任何東西更能控制我們?nèi)松氖俏覀兊淖晕乙庀蟆Ｎ覀兿裨阽R子里看到的自己一樣地活著。自己是自我感覺的自己。如果你不認為自己會
成功,那你就不會成功。你看不到也就達不到。你的人生是受你的抱負限制的。如果你想改變你的人生,你就必須改變你的人生理想。
阿諾·施瓦辛格在1976年遇見一位報社記者的時候還不太有名。那位記者問施瓦辛格:“你現(xiàn)在從健美這一行退休下來,下一步準備做什么?”施瓦辛格平靜而自信地回答:“我將成為好萊塢一流的電影明星”。那位記者對施瓦辛格的計劃感到驚訝、可笑。在當(dāng)時,人們很難想像這位肌肉結(jié)實的健美運動員,因為他既非職業(yè)演員而且奧地利口音很重,英語很差。
當(dāng)那位記者問施瓦辛格怎樣計劃使夢想成真,施瓦辛格答道:“我會照著使我成為世界一流的健美運動員的方法去做。我先設(shè)想出自己想成為的那個人的形象,然后開始像我心里想像的那個人那樣去
生活。”乍聽起來是不是單純得像孩子話?但事實證明這樣做他的確成功了!施瓦辛格真的成了好萊塢收入第一的電影明星!記住:“如果你能看得到,你就能做得到”。
我認識一位很成功的商人,他穿著的T恤衫印著這樣的話:“不要只追逐你的夢,要緊追不舍,逮住它!”人生只有一次,為什么不過得最精彩呢?那樣的話你就可以為你所想到的和所得到的感到滿足。好好想想吧!
What You See is What you GET
You’ve heard the expression, “What you see is what you get.” My grandfather used to say: “If you looked at a tree long enough, it will move.” We see what we want to see. Psychologists tell us that nothing controls our lives more than our self-image. We live like the person we see in the mirror. We are what we think we are. If you don’t think you’ll be successful, You won’t. You can’t be it if you can’t see it. Your life is limited to your vision. If you want to change your life, you must change your vision of your life.
Arnold Schwarzenegger was not that famous in 1976 when he met with a newspaper reporter. The reporter asked Schwarzenegger: “Now that you’ve retired from bodybuilding, what do you plan to do next? Schwarzenegger answered very calmly and confidently: ”I’m going to be the movie star in Hollywood.“ The reporter was shocked and amused at Schwarzenegger’s plan. At that time, it was very hard to imagine how this muscle-bound bodybuilder, who was not a professional actor and who spoke poor English with an strong Austrian accent, could ever hope to be Hollywood’s movie star!
So the reporter asked Schwarzenegger how he planned to make his dream come true, Schwarzenegger said: “I’ll do it the same way I became the bodybuilder in the world. What I do was to create a vision of who I want to be, then I start living like that person in my mind as if it were already true.” Sounds almost childishly simple, doesn’t it? But it worked! Schwarzenegger DID become the first class highest paid movie star in Hollywood! Remember: “If you can see it, you can be it.”
A successful businessman I know wears a shirt with these words on it: “Don’t just pursue your dreams. Chase ’em down and tackle ’em!” You only get one life to live, so why not live the best life possible? So you can be fully satisfied at what you see and get. Just think a minute!
