英文勵志：生活(Life)

生活不是積分

你有多少朋友或者你受大家歡迎的程度與它無關(guān)。

這個周末你是有安排還是獨(dú)自度過也與它無關(guān)。

你現(xiàn)在正與誰約會，你曾經(jīng)與誰約會，你曾與多少人約會，或者你從未與誰約會，都與它無關(guān)。

你曾吻過誰，與它無關(guān)。

它也無關(guān)兩性問題。

不是關(guān)于誰是你的家人，或者他們有多少錢。

或者你開哪種車。

或者你在哪上學(xué)。

你有多漂亮或者多丑陋與它無關(guān)。

或者，你穿什么衣服，有什么樣的鞋子，聽哪種類型的音樂，都跟它無關(guān)。

你的頭發(fā)是金色、紅色、黑色或者棕色，或者你的膚色太白還是太黑，都與它無關(guān)。

你得了多少分，你有多聰明，別人認(rèn)為你有多聰明，或者智力標(biāo)準(zhǔn)測試告訴你有多聰明，與它無關(guān)。

它不是把你各方面的情況寫在一張紙上，然后看誰會“接受書面上的你”，它不僅僅是這樣。

但是，生活是關(guān)于你愛誰和傷害了誰的問題

它是你故意逗誰開心或者惹誰生氣。

它是關(guān)于遵守諾言或者背信棄義。

它是關(guān)于友誼，把它當(dāng)做一種圣潔還是利用的武器。

它是關(guān)于你所說的及其用意，也許使人痛苦，也許振奮人心。

它是關(guān)于散布謠言和捏造談資。

它是關(guān)于你做出的判斷及其緣由。還有，你對誰做出的判斷。

它是關(guān)于你對誰帶著絕對控制和某些意圖的忽視。

它是關(guān)于嫉妒、恐懼、愚昧和報復(fù)。

它是關(guān)于內(nèi)心深處的恨與愛，釋懷與蔓延。

但最重要的，它是關(guān)于你的生活使他人的心靈受到觸動還是毒害，這樣你的心不再獨(dú)自悲歡。

只要你選擇了觸動他人的心靈，這些選擇便是生活的全部。

Life

Life isn't about keeping score.

It's not about how many friends you have or how accepted you are.
Not about if you have plans this weekend or if you're alone.
It isn't about who you're dating,who you used to date,how many people you've dated,or if you haven't beem with anyone at all.
It isn't about who you have kissed.
It's not about sex.
It isn't about who your family is or how much money they have Or what kind of car you drive.
Or where you are sent to school.
It's not about how beautiful or ugly you are.
Or what clothes you wear,what shoes you have on,or what kind of music you listen to.
It's not about if your hair is blonde,red,black,or brown or if your skin is too light or too dark.
Not about what grades you get,how smart you are,how smart everybody else thinks you are,or how smart standardized tests say you are.
It's not about representing your whole being on a piece of paper and seeing who will "accept the written you."LIFE JUST ISN'T

But,life is about who you love and who you hurt.
It's about who you make happy or unhappy purposefully.
It's about keeping or betraying trust.
It's about friendship,used as a sanctity or a weapon.
It's about what you say and what you mean,maybe hurtful,maybe heartening.
about starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.
It's about what judgments you pass and why.And who your judgement arespread to.
It's about who you've ignored with full control and intention.
It's about jealousy,fear,ignorance,and revenge.
It's about carrying inner hate and love,letting it grow,and spreading it.

But most of all,it's about using your life to touch or poison other people's hearts in such a way that could have never occurred alone.

Only you choose the way those hearts are affected,and those choices are what life's all about.